Lady Glamor, Extravaganza & Fashionista
By BlessedBella
Lady Glamor, Fashionista & Extravaganza
A Woman is a wonderful creature.
Everything she does is almost always on point.
Everything said to a woman has to go through a train of thoughts before she delivers the final verdict or word; and it rarely takes her 24 hours to do so!
A woman has a certain tenure and standards; In the olden days, an average woman was less considered and appreciated than nowadays. Women have found their way into society; all thanks to all those, in the past, who stood up for them and introduced their name in the media through school, fashion, culinary, and many more.
A woman today is being examined extremely closely compared to the previous centuries, just to find a way to rejoice over a downfall one way or the other, for the simple reason that statistically showing, she has the ability to learn more efficiently and faster than the man . People might as well look at her as a contemporary statue or painting, exposed to open discussions and studies, which can turn out to almost always concluded in misinterpretations.
Many men would be stunned to know that the majority of women don't keep themselves attractive or on high standards for them (men)! But rather to compete against other women! How confusing is that?!
If we look closely, it doesn't seem at all confusing, because it grew to be considered as a normal lifestyle. A married woman seeing the way another married one lives, treats her children, hugs them, or even how she holds her husband can bring a little competition to one another. A woman has the tendency to want to be the best at what she does and wants, she usually dislikes the feeling of being inferior to other women.
The tension between single women is pretty high, due to the fact that they can hang out more, dress sexy, trendy, casual, etc..., they worry more about the kind of friends they're surrounded by, their weddings, boyfriends, fiancees, goals, ambitions and achievements. Competition has grown to be natural in women's lives.
This behavior pushed them to a certain extent; Some of the women replaced various values with their own. Like for instance; “Lady Glamor, Fashionista & Extravaganza”, the way I like to call women wearing rings on most of their fingers and keeping their nails longer. One would even think if those kind of women would ever make a warm home cooked meal, bath a child, or even take those rings off while sleeping!
I would say wearing them, boosts up their confidence, standards and gives them a feminine feeling. Some wear them to show off, some just for fun, or just because they've seen others wear them in that manner. Baring in mind that all women's best friend is jewelery, why wouldn't others fit it in that particular category?!
Statistics show that an average woman owns at least 17 pairs of high heels (men would go:”what in the world?!”). Women have to keep themselves “Chic”, looking their best all the time. Some made high heels their daily mark, they have got to wear them everywhere they go; Work, Party, Club, Neighbor, School, Funeral, Church,... but NEVER for sports ( Hurray!)
Makeup is a woman's signature. She practically CANNOT live without makeup; All celebrities rely on it, and rarely face the media without it. We can therefore conclude that women look good with makeup, FULL STOP.
Every man, likes a woman who smells good! It goes both ways by the way. Women's personal hygiene matters a lot to them. There are still some women who actually don't use perfumes, body sprays, antiperspirants,... but they still manage not to smell bad! It's all in a woman's secret of keeping herself well!
This world wouldn't have possibly survived without a woman's touch. Even though a woman has found her way in society and works, that never stops her from also being a wonderful housewife. She cooks, she cleans and takes care of her loved ones. Once a woman says she's tired, IT'S TRUE! That's the reason why men are asked to take good care of her. Doing that is not always making love to her, but showing her affection, love, support, and tenderness.
Many would then realize that, when two people get married, a woman ALWAYS has to stand to the left side of her husband; When he puts his arm around her shoulders, it's to protect her! To hold her and shows her that he loves her from the bottom of his heart (which is found on the left side of his chest), and his right hand is there to defend her and fight for her.
A woman is a gem not to be ignored. She is not suppose to do all that she does, but she does it for herself and the person she will spend the rest of her life with.
Shout out to all the women out there, you have all the tools to be “Lady Glamor, Fashionista & Extravaganza”, it's all in the genes, more or less than others, but it's in our blood.
Thank you all For reading.
Comments
Interesting hub. So, do you have, or like, those really long nails, depicted above?
I am not allowed to have those kind of nails because of my profession, Lab technician. But I find it attractive
Like, long, elegant and painted? they must take a lot of time to get laqueured up into that pristine state, anyway.
I guess you really like thin and high stiletto heels, too.
In general it doesn't take long when we have to look good and smell good. I love stilettos but I don't wear them all the time! But I love cooking in them
Cooking! so it is the feeling that they give you that you like, towering a bit unsteadily as you cook? or maybe more practically, so you can see over the cooking area, what you are doing better, maybe?
I just feel confident and empowered when I wear them. It's a feeling that cannot really be explained.
I see; yes, I think I know what you mean. Like, even though it's a bit more precarious once you have slipped onto the stilettos, you are kind of still in control more elegantly, right, and can still do well what you could have done before, without them. Something like this, I guess, right.
Indeed you're right. It's a wonderful feeling. Women have gorgeous feet!
And I guess as you cook, the thinner and the higher the stilettos that you can manage to negotiate, the more precarious but also the more elegant and successful the feeling, too. More feminine.
Indeed! Women can do so much in their stilettos
Anyway, I can understand, I think. Interesting hub, too. BTW, do you sometimes think that stilettos, though elegant, always feel 'complete', as a style? like, you might not be into it, but a lot of women are combining stilettos (with or without nylons) with a tastefully placed tattoo on the ankle. It doesn't have to be a big one, but I guess, though it's not for some people, the combination of a tasteful little design with the wearing of stilettos can make for an extra elegant combination. Sometimes, anyway. Depends on the person, really.
I also think it can add that little elegant pitch to the beauty of the feet in the stilettos. Sometimes we can admire, love and appreciate something that we don't want to be on us. It depends on a person's taste, Like i for instant, I like my ankles the way they are, but I can also use an ankle bracelet instead of a little tattoo, due to the ink consequences into the bloodstream. It's all in someone's style and how "chic" you want to look in your stilettos
Yes, you are right about the ankle chains. Sometimes they are chains that hang loose, and then there are also ones which can be locked into place and to be removed they have to be unlocked with a key. There are various varieties of ankle chain, which kind of add to the elegance of the stiletto wearing.
Yes, I can see what you mean by consequences in the bloodstream. Maybe this is a particular concern of yours. I can understand in theory that this might be something that preoccupies you. Did you know that some of the more modern ink is safer than the low quality sort what was used in the stereotypical back-street parlors? If an ankle design is something that interests you but you have concerns about the effects of the ink in the bloodstream, do you think it would be worth checking out at your local parlor? because you have to be completely comfortable about it first but you may actually find that tattoo ink has come quite a way from the days of the sort of ink that rightly concerns you. You might find that a tattooist (they are unlikely to do a 'hard sell'; it's not professional) will allay your fears in terms of the ink composition. Anyway, you must know your own feelings, but it sounds like you do think a tasteful design would be quite pretty and adding to the elegance of stiletto-wearing.
I totally understand your point on view on the tattoos, It's just a personal opinion of mine on the inks that they use. But also some plain full legs wearing stilettos could be quite attractive and very elegant! Some get tattoos or ankle chains just because they've seen the way they look on others, and want to give it a try! But We also need to take into consideration that not all skins can get a lot with some jewelry nor tattoos, biologically due to their pigmentation.
Yes, I know what you mean and it's an individual thing, isn't it. Very much so. Like, there are all sorts of tattoos, too: some are meant to be colorful; others deliberately aren't, as you may know. Some aren't intended to be bright in their pigmentation, of course. Like for example tribals; it's the pattern that counts in a tribal: and within the whole range of tribal designs you can have thick lines, thin lines and so forth. The idea isn't necessarily to have bright color, but a tasteful pattern (that the person likes a lot, of course). They've got to like it a lot first of all. Anyway, I guess in some ways for the lower leg ankle area, a tattoo in a tribal design is almost a localized and more permanent equivalent to fishnets. Like, fishnets give nice patterns, worn with stilettos, and I suppose a tribal design is kind of a similar idea, really. Up to a point I suppose, anyway Don't know. Depends on the person, really.
You must know what would suit you.
All sounds like marvelous ideas when it comes to a person's own ankle. It could also be a cultural point of view. I am open minded to all the cultures that sometimes it even overwhelms myself; A tattoo literally speaking, looks elegant on a woman's ankle. It all lies in the eyes of the beholder.
I see; yes. It's a lot to think about, isn't it; there are so many creative and varied possibilities. You said 'overwhelmed', too; do you think that you would potentially be overwhelmed by the attractiveness of an ankle tattoo idea as well, as an option? Maybe you didn't mean that, though. Maybe you're not 'open' specifically to this, though. It's all very interesting anyway, isn't it.
By overwhelmed, I meant the all variety upon the difference of cultures, that sometimes I don't even know where I am! Women are beautiful, they are all very unique, we've been talking about wearing stilettos, that's why I am emphasizing on the ankles, and what we could add to make it even more elegant. It overwhelms me to see the way that we (women) could talk about ankles, fingers, body, clothes,etc. all day long without getting tired! Especially when one says, "you know that definitely looks good on you!"
Yes, I see. All sorts of possibilities and variety. It would kind of take a very special sort of overwhelming urge for some ppl to be open to the ankle tattoo option, though. But the fishnet pattern comparison did seem interesting, anyway. For the elegant woman in stilettos, anyhow.
I like the tattoos don't get me wrong on that one. It's also a little personal, but everything concerning women is always interesting! The fishnet pattern is also beautiful! it's all in the style and occasion in which we present ourselves
Oh okay, I know, you might not want to express fully your personal feeling on whether you would ever go ahead and have it done to one of your ankles. I understand this, and obviously you wouldn't want to say more than you would feel confident about saying. About the fishnets; yes, there is something just really elegantly confident about the combination of stilettos and fishnets, really, isn't there.
You make me want to wear them in my pajamas hahaha. thank you
Wear them? you mean, fishnets, stilettos, or tattoos?
(Maybe you meant fishnets.)
"I like the tattoos don't get me wrong on that one." Okay, yes, I read you there, loud and clear!
Blessings.
Wearing what is in my reach right now, meaning the Fishnets and Stilettos. When it comes to tattoos I can get very picky!
Well, it doesn't surprise me one little bit that a fashion conscious person like you has fishnets, as well as the stilettos you already mentioned. As for tattoos, well, I guess they take a little longer to put on! I guess you don't currently have any, though.
Blessings.
Thank you! Currently I don't have a tattoo
YW. And I'm sure, as well, that you have your own very fixed ideas as to how permanently the not having a tattoo is likely to be! They're not like fishnets, that slide on and off. The person really needs to be sure of the design. Blessings.
True that! it's something we have to live with, and doesn't come out with soap
You must know whether you have, or are likely eventually to have, the confidence to go ahead and have it done, anyway. Confidence is all part of the stiletto thing, really, as well, though it's not permanent like a tattoo is, of course. Blessings.
what I know is to be confident with what you have because we all are uniquely beautiful. Remain blessed
Yes. There's the inward and spiritual aspect of it all. With what you wear, it's more the outward dimension. I guess a mod like a tattoo is a bit like piercings, really; depends on the person, how much or how extensive it can be pulled off confidently. Blessings.
Exactly
Yes, indeed. Some ppl can't manage more than the minimal 2 piercings in each ear; and that's it. It's all a matter of confidence, really.
yes it is. Some even don't tolerate piercings, but it's a matter of taste and culture but most of all confidence
Most women have at least 2 in each ear though, Pretty conservative really. (Then, again, a low key, tasteful tattoo wouldn't be regarded as particularly radical on some ppl, either, these days.) Blessings.
Exactly!
So it wouldn't necessarily be an insurmountable hurdle to go under the needle.
(as a general principle, I mean, of course.)
I like needles, but we also have sensitive parts
Oh I was thinking in general terms of tattoo placements, rather than of some specific piercing placements.
I guess you are referring to the piercings, now?
(What I meant was, many people have tattoos, so going under the tattoo needle wouldn't necessarily, in and of itself, be regarded as really radical or extreme.)
PS: I just looked again at your photos, only full screen, in the slide show. Those long nails look really spectacular! at first I did wonder if they were artificial, but they really do look real when you examine them more closely! think of all the time and painstaking effort involved.
Re. what you said: "I like the tattoos don't get me wrong on that one."
Well, yes. Especially when with the stilettos and ankle tattoo combination, together, it seems to achieve a special elegance, a grace which in its strength is very womanly. A lot of women have already found the confidence to be tattooed at that placement, and a lot more are looking to find that confidence, to have it done.
oh I got you. True indeed
they are real indeed.
I guess you don't know whether you would eventually be more likely to have really long, elegant nails, or a tattoo to complement your stilettos? (Maybe it's not a case of either/or.)
BlessedBella 3 months ago
a woman is awesome and full of surprises